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How does taking a break affect your learning? 

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Vital words for understanding

Motivated – Feeling excited and driven to do something.

Square one – The beginning of something, especially after a failure or break.

Key account manager – A person responsible for managing important customers in a company.

Personal life – The part of your life not related to work—family, hobbies, friends, etc.

Frustrated – Feeling annoyed or upset because something isn’t working the way you want.

Synaptic connections – Links between brain cells (neurons) that allow you to think, learn, and remember.

Neurons – Brain cells that carry information and form learning pathways.

Short-term memory – Memory for things you only need to remember for a short time.

Long-term memory – Memory for things you remember for a long time, like your name or your first pet.

Grey matter – Part of the brain that helps with memory, language, and thinking.

Hippocampus – The part of your brain that helps store and recall memories.

Synaptic pruning – When the brain removes weak or unused connections to make room for stronger ones.

Recall – The ability to remember something when you need it.

Automaticity – When something becomes automatic, like understanding or speaking without thinking too much.

 

You start with the best of intentions. You’re motivated, you turn up, you do the work… and then life happens. A busy week. A holiday. A stressful project at work. You take a short break – harmless, right? But that short break becomes longer, and suddenly you’re back to square one. All over again. And again I’m going to give you some background. 

This is Emma. Emma is an adult in her mid-thirties who enjoys life, spending time with her husband and two dogs. She likes to travel and works as a key account manager for an IT company. She needs English for her job, but also for her personal life, as she wants to be able to communicate with her husband’s foreign friends, read books and watch films in English when she travels. She finds a private teacher and starts to work on her English. She has a lesson once a week, does her homework, sometimes listens to podcasts and watches films or series. Then she takes a break. One week, two weeks of nothing. She starts again, but then there is the summer holidays, so she decides to take a break from studying and starts again in September. And this happens again and again. One day, after about 2 years of trying, she feels that she is not making any progress. She thinks she doesn’t have the brain cells or the talent to learn English. She feels frustrated. 

Now. Can you relate? Can you imagine? Have you been there? Why do you think this happens?

Let me ask you a question: What do you think breaks do to your learning?

I will start with what happens in your brain when you study English regularly. I can link it to heavy lifting. Every time you hear, say or write an English word, your brain strengthens the synaptic connections between the neurons associated with that sound, meaning and usage. These connections are like trails in a forest. The more you walk them, the clearer and faster they become. 

Another thing that happens is that while you sleep, your brain moves new information from short-term memory to long-term memory. Especially if it’s repetitive or emotionally engaging (something fun). 

Studies also show that consistent language learning can increase grey matter density in areas associated with memory, attention and language. In particular, the hippocampus and Broca’s area. So your brain physically changes. 

When you take a break from learning, when you stop practising, there is something called the use-it-or-lose-it principle that kicks in. Without use, those beautiful neural pathways start to weaken. Especially newer ones that haven’t been strengthened enough. This is called synaptic pruning. Your brain prioritises what you use regularly. If you don’t touch English for a while, it replicates those resources elsewhere. Recall becomes slower – you may recognise words, but actively recalling them (in conversation, for example) becomes more difficult. The automaticity you have built up starts to wear off. 

So when you start again, it feels like you’re back to square onenot because you’re bad at languages or think you have no talent, but because the connections weren’t solid enough. 

How do you fix that? 

Smaller steps. More consistency. Less pressure. Instead of a weekly burst of effort, imagine if Emma:
– Spent just 10 minutes a day reviewing vocabulary or talking to herself
– Kept English in her ears while walking the dogs
– Had a light mode for holidays, no homework, just watching Netflix. 

Focus on progress, not perfection.

Emma (or you) doesn’t need more talent. She needs a system. There are some positives! Her brain hasn’t forgotten everything. Thanks to something called memory, the brain can rebuild those lost connections faster than the first time – like waking up dormant knowledge. Taking breaks weakens the signal, but doesn’t erase it. Short breaks can even help to consolidate, but long, passive ones without input can slow down your progress in fluency.

Or stop.

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How to Learn English While You Sleep (Or Can You?)

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Vital words for understanding

Fluent – Able to speak a language easily and accurately.

Enhance – To improve or make something better.

Seep – To slowly pass through or spread into something.

Process – To take in and understand information.

Cue – A signal or hint that helps someone remember or act.

Reinforce – To strengthen or support something.

Exposure – The state of experiencing or being in contact with something frequently.

Passively – In a way that does not require active effort or engagement.

Advantage – A benefit or a helpful condition.

Repetition – Doing something again and again to improve memory or skill.

Recall – The ability to remember something.

Cramming – Studying a lot in a short period, usually before a test.

Retain – To keep or remember information.

Myth – A widely believed but false idea.

Haha, gotcha! Happy April Fool’s Day! 🎉 No, you can’t magically wake up fluent in English. And no, sleeping with an audiobook won’t make you fluent overnight. But – before you roll your eyes and move on – there is a way to use sleep to enhance your learning. Let’s break it down.

The myth: You can learn a language in your sleep. 

When I was at school, I used to stick my notes under my pillow, hoping that the knowledge would somehow seep into my brain overnight. (Spoiler alert: it never worked.) But where did this idea come from? Well, science has actually proven that the brain processes sound while you sleep.

A study in the journal Cerebral Cortex found that people who learned new words and then went to sleep remembered them better than those who stayed awake. Another study showed that listening to speech cues during sleep can help reinforce grammar patterns. Sounds cool, right? But here’s the rub: just listening passively won’t make you fluent. Sleep reinforces what you’ve already learned – it doesn’t teach you anything new. So how can you use this to your advantage?

What really works: 

  • Review before bed. Read, listen to or review something in English before you go to sleep. Your brain will continue to work on it overnight.
  • Use sleep-friendly listening. Play back familiar words, phrases or content you already know while you sleep. Repetition improves recall – but you might want to skip the horror stories. Trust me on this one.
  • Try spaced repetition. Instead of cramming, review words or grammar points over several days. Science backs this up – it’s one of the most effective ways to retain information. (If you’re studying with me, you already know how useful a vocabulary file can be!) 
  • Dream journaling in English. When you remember a dream, write it down in English when you wake up. It’s a great way to get into the habit of thinking in the language.
  • Surround yourself with English every day. The more exposure you get during the day, the better your brain will process it at night. Simple as that.

So no, you won’t wake up fluent. But if you combine active learning + quality sleep, you’ll make real progress. Sweet dreams and happy learning! 😴📚💙

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Start before you’re ready

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Vital words for understanding

Perfectionism – the need to be perfect or do things perfectly

Excuse – a reason given to avoid doing something

Psychological barrier – a mental obstacle preventing progress

Delay – to postpone or put off doing something

Progress – improvement or development over time

Comfort zone – a situation where you feel safe and comfortable

Fear of failure – being afraid of making mistakes or not succeeding

Confidence – belief in yourself and your abilities

Overthinking – thinking too much, which can stop you from acting

Burnout – feeling exhausted from too much effort or stress

Accountability – responsibility for progress or actions

Guidance – advice or help from an expert

Structure – a clear and organized way of doing something

Embrace imperfection – accept that things don’t have to be perfect

As the title suggests, let’s talk about perfectionism today. As a perfectionist myself – at least in some areas – I understand where you’re coming from.

  • I’ll travel when I learn basic structures.
  • I’ll apply for the job once I’m fluent.
  • I’ll start learning English when my kids grow up.

These are just some of the excuses I’ve heard from clients recently. But let’s simplify it:

🛑 I’ll start … when I … 🛑

By repeating this to yourself, you’re building psychological barriers that delay your progress. The truth is, waiting for the “right” time often means waiting forever – because there’s never a perfect moment to start anything.

The habit of delay

The more we postpone, the easier it is to keep postponing. Can you see the connection? The more you speak, the easier English gets. But when we delay, we do it for a reason. In my experience, these reasons often come down to:

  • Fear of failure
  • Fear of stepping out of our comfort zone
  • Lack of confidence

It’s heartbreaking to see this in people who are otherwise incredibly strong and capable. In fact, those who struggle the most with these fears are often the ones who inspire me the most.

A few truths about learning

You’ll never feel 100% ready. And that’s okay.
Learning happens through action. Think back to childhood – how did you learn that fire burns or that lying has consequences? By doing, trying, and discovering through experience. Language learning works the same way.

Where to start?

  • Start small. Even simple thoughts like I like this coffee or My boss is a jerk count.
  • Talk to an AI chatbot. No pressure, no judgment – just you and the machine.
  • Set mini-goals. Try reading something easy today – newsinlevels.com is a great place to start.
  • Make learning fun. Play an English memory game (pexeso).
  • Use music. Listen to an English song and check the lyrics (karaoketexty.cz).
  • Find a teacher on YouTube. Choose one you enjoy learning from and stick with them.

or – find a private teacher

We often get trapped in a cycle:
I’ll start when I’m readyI try nowI don’t see progressI feel stuckI stopI’ll start when I’m ready… again.

Sound familiar? This loop can lead to overthinking, overdoing, and eventually, burnout. You don’t have to do it alone. A teacher provides structure, guidance, and accountability – helping you move forward even when you don’t feel ready.

Loosen your need for control. Embrace imperfection. Trust the process. Because progress doesn’t come from waiting. It comes from doing.

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Stop apologising for your English

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Vital words for understanding

Apologise – to say sorry for something you did or said.

Reflect – to think deeply or carefully about something.

Resort to – to do something (often a bad or extreme action) because you have no other choice.

Justify – to give a reason or explanation for something to show it is fair or correct.

Frustrating – making you feel annoyed, upset, or discouraged.

Embarrassing – making someone feel ashamed, uncomfortable, or self-conscious.

Self-doubt – a lack of confidence in yourself or your abilities.

Ignorant – lacking knowledge or awareness about something.

Diplomacy – the skill of dealing with people or governments in a respectful and effective way.

Turmoil – a state of great confusion, disorder, or uncertainty.

Inferior – lower in quality, status, or ability compared to someone else.

Discourage – to make someone feel less confident or motivated to do something.

„I apologise for my English.“

This single sentence made me stop and reflect.

You’re probably well aware of the political turmoil in the world right now. I follow it, but I hesitated to write about it. That’s why I went two weeks without publishing anything. I was searching for a different topic—something about English learning. But then I thought: I can’t not talk about this.

I’ll try to stay neutral. Those who know me already understand where I stand, and frankly, I have no need to justify my views. So let’s return to that opening sentence: I apologize for my English.

When I heard it, it broke my heart. Not because of my work, my message, or my teaching. But because I know how painful, frustrating, and exhausting it is to feel the need to say those words.

And you know what frustrates me the most? The people who say this are the ones who shouldn’t feel this way at all.Speaking a foreign language is not embarrassing. It’s not weird, stupid, or laughable. It’s badass. It’s brave. It’s cool.

So where does this self-doubt come from? Why do language learners feel the need to apologize? Why are they so critical of themselves?
Is it society? The school system? Family? I honestly don’t know, and I’d love to hear your thoughts.

What I do know is this:
The people who should be ashamed of themselves often have the most confidence. The truly ignorant are the loudest.

And you can see this everywhere – even in places that are supposed to represent intelligence, class, and diplomacy.

Take, for example, a certain recent political event. Watching it from a professional perspective, as a language teacher, was mind-blowing. In a conversation between native and non-native speakers, how is it possible that the foreigner spoke English more clearly than the native speakers? Because language isn’t just about how you sound – it’s about what you say.

One side communicated in a foreign language. The other two? Native speakers. And yet, they resorted to yelling at someone who might not have had the same vocabulary, who might not have fully understood their accent. Come on.

And this, right here, is what’s wrong with society.

English learners work hard every single day to understand and be understood. That is the power of language. And if someone’s English is stronger, the right thing to do is help the other person understand you. That’s the whole reason we learn languages – to communicate.

So what does it say about people who enjoy making others feel lost and inferior?

I’ll let you decide.

If you’re reading this, thank you for sticking around. I just want to add a few words of encouragement because I know the message was quite heavy.

The good people – the ones who truly matter – will treat you with kindness and respect, no matter how many mistakes you make. Please don’t let negativity or ignorance discourage you, and never let it make you give up.

Yes, there will always be someone who tries to bring you down. But you? You just need to stay patient, stay strong, and keep going.

And remember – I’m always in your corner! 💙

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Can a chatbot improve your English? 

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Vital words for understanding

Overthinking – Thinking too much about something, often in a negative way.

Fluency – The ability to speak a language smoothly and naturally.

Role-play – Acting out a situation to practice language or skills.

Synonyms – Words that have the same or similar meaning.

Antonyms – Words that have opposite meanings.

Nuance – A small difference in meaning, expression, or sound.

Implicit learning – Learning naturally through exposure, like picking up phrases from conversation.

Minimal pairs – Two words that differ by only one sound (e.g., ship vs. sheep).

Comprehension – The ability to understand something, especially reading or listening.

Personalized – Designed for a specific person’s needs or interests.

Speech-to-text – A tool that converts spoken words into written text.

Neuroplasticity – The brain’s ability to change and learn new things.

Explicit learning – Learning with conscious effort, like studying grammar rules.

Pronunciation – The way a word is spoken.

 

I was not sure what to write about today until I had an idea – maybe a chatbot can help me feel better. 

I am having one of the happiest, but also one of the most intense times. Some days there are things I cannot get out of my head and I keep overthinking. 

So today, when I was thinking about the same stupid situation for the millionth time, I decided to try a chatbot. I prefer to use ChatGPT, I have the app in all my devices. I had already tried this feature a year ago to get my piano basics down. Since then I have heard that it can also help you on the mental side of things. It can help you with everything from emotional support to learning English. I think that’s what we’re most interested in. Let’s take a closer look. 

First of all, here are some tips on how to learn with a chatbot

It’s good conversation practice that you can do every day. It can definitely improve your fluency faster than weekly sessions with a person. You can also simulate real-life situations (like ordering food, small talk, or job interviews) and even role-play these situations. Easy to give instructions – and when I say easy, I still realize that giving clear instructions is one of the hardest things to do. 

This chatbot can explain grammar rules, give you examples, synonyms, antonyms, even word nuances. You can also ask it to provide you with vocabulary lists for different types of English. 

You can also work on your pronunciation. When you type a sentence and ask the chatbot for the correct pronunciation, you can see the sounds. A great thing I use with my clients is the speechtotext tool. This is very useful for you to practice and check if the chatbot understands what you mean (for example, one thing you can try right away: ship vs. sheep). These are called minimal pairs (words that differ in a sound but mean different things). 

It can even help you write. If you provide text, the chatbot can tell you where you make mistakes and help you correct them. You can even practice formal and informal writing. 

Another great asset is reading – you can generate comprehension questions based on a text you provide, you can discuss books and articles. You can even debate on various topics. 

It all comes down to one thing – instructions. Effective instructions. 

Some advantages of learning English with a chatbot: 

  • It’s always available. Now you have no excuses, it only takes a second to open the app. 
  • The chatbot does not judge you, so you can feel more comfortable making mistakes. I have to say here that any decent teacher will not judge you either and will be more supportive of you making mistakes than just producing correct language.  
  • It can be very personalized, so you only learn the things you want to learn. It doesn’t push you anywhere else. 
  • Of course, one of the advantages is that it’s a lot cheaper than having an experienced teacher. I think it’s about $20 a month. 
  • And the revision can be more effective because you’re only revising what you’ve already done. 

Now for some cons:

  • A chatbot can’t really replace the social interaction that we as humans generally need. 
  • Speech practice is limited for now. If you don’t use voice input, there’s no conversation. So you miss out on real speaking practice. 
  • It’s really nice for pronunciation, but it can’t give you realistic feedback. I tried it by mispronouncing the word „neuroscience“ and the chatbot apologized and said it’s sorry and I should try again later. Let me know if it worked for you. 
  • You can get to the point, you are relying too much on the AI. It’s still a bot, and you’re missing out on real-world practice with other people. 
  • Communication generally involves body language. That’s something you can only get from other people. 

There are some other things that just come to mind as I write. For example, I can see the positive impact on the neuroplasticity of our brains, because the more we engage with a language, the stronger our neural connections are. So daily conversations with chatbots would reinforce language patterns and vocabulary. Also, revision could be more effective because we could instruct the chatbot to follow our learning processes and design the best spatial repetition for us. Revision strengthens memory. 

Hormones play a significant role in how we use technology, so why not use it to our advantage? We can use the bot to make our learning interactive, for example to solve problems. This releases dopamine, and quick feedback makes learning more rewarding. In short, we can get addicted to learning. 

There is something called explicit and implicit learning. But I don’t think that’s an advantage of a chatbot. This is a principle I like to teach about: 

  • Implicit learning is learning like a child. When you chat with me (as a teacher) in full sentences, you automatically reinforce patterns – like when you hear I’ve been there many times, you start using it correctly without thinking about the rule. It’s unconscious learning done through conversation, not worrying about mistakes, and focusing on understanding meaning rather than grammar rules. 
  • Explicit learning is the adult way of learning. We ask for grammar explanations, study example sentences, analyze our mistakes, and keep our learning structured. 

The best way, you ask? Do both. 

I cannot help but think of one last thing here. For many, translation is a fact of life. It’s a cognitive load, which is how much information your brain can process at one time. Translation overloads our working memory and makes it harder to speak fluently. If you think in Czech, then translate into English, then speak, that’s three steps instead of one!

How to break this habit:

  • Start by forming simple thoughts and using short, direct sentences. 
  • You can practice recognizing complete English expressions. 
  • Use chunks or phrases as units (let me think, it depends) so that you are not constructing each sentence from scratch.
  • Think is pictures! That’s the best one. Instead of mentally translating, imagine, visualize (a dog for example). 

Oops, this is longer than I thought. Let me know what you think in the comments section below, or if you have any questions, I’m here to answer them.  Bottom line: I may be shooting myself in the foot, but I think using chatbots can be beneficial to your learning journey. So stop being afraid and just give it a try. 

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How does music affect language learning?

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Vital words for understanding

Sing along – To sing together with a song.

Pick up (a language) – To learn something naturally, without studying too much.

Have an ear for music – To be good at recognizing and understanding music.

Imitate – To copy the way someone speaks or acts.

Tactile – Related to the sense of touch.

Distinguish – To recognize the difference between two things.

Decipher – To figure out the meaning of something difficult to understand.

Limbic system – The part of the brain that controls emotions and memory.

Prerequisite – Something that must happen before something else can happen.

Retention – The ability to remember something for a long time.

Struggle a bit – To find something difficult but still try.

Amygdala – The part of the brain linked to emotions.

Hippocampus – A part of the brain that helps with memory and learning.

Absorb – To take in and learn something naturally over time.

I cannot learn English because I am not musical. I don’t have an ear for music.

Oh, how many times do you think I have heard that excuse? And I say excuse on purpose, so you know what this article is about. How music can help with language learning, not that it’s a prerequisite. 

Yes, music has a powerful effect on language learning. It affects pronunciation, vocabulary retention and much more. Be honest, how often do you find yourself knowing the words to a song without actually trying to learn them? And it stays with you, you remember it for years. 

Music and language have so much in common. They both involve sound processing, rhythm, memory and even emotion. Whenever there is an aspect of emotion, we tend to remember it better. Music also involves more areas of the brain, for example:

  • The temporal lobe, where sound is processed. This area of the brain allows you to distinguish between accents, for example. If you hear a person speaking English, you can probably tell where they are from. 
  • There’s also a temporal lobe that can decipher words and grammar. 
  • The limbic system and its famous amygdala, which is responsible for our emotions, and the hippocampus.

..and many, many more. Sorry, I did not mean to bore you to death. I am just trying to show how hugely complex languages are. If you think about it – for most of you, English is a weekly thing. If you take all these parts and the parts I am not even mentioning, once a week for 50 minutes. How fast do you think you can progress? If you think about how a child picks up language – for years, even before they start to use it – they absorb it, they listen to it, they have physical and emotional reactions to it; years. It takes years for them. The bottom line? If I ever hear a client complain about not making progress – you should be happy that you can speak the language, that you can be understood. 

Music and language are related. There is a BIG BUT: they are separate skills! There are many ways to learn English, and many successful learners never use music at all. It is a fact that your brain processes sound without any musical ability, and you do not need to sing or have a good ear for music to understand language. Remember that even deaf children can learn to speak. Our brains are naturally wired to recognise patterns in speech. 

I touched on an interesting subject: deaf children can learn to speak. Yes, with guidance, training, speech therapy, sign language, lip reading, tactile methods – all help. Speech is possible without hearing, simply because the brain is flexible. It adapts to what we see, what we touch. 

Music helps a lot, I won’t lie. It’s a bit harder for people who don’t have an ear for music, yes, and they might struggle a bit more and maybe never get as fluent as they’d like, but it’s possible. 

Here are some tips on how to incorporate music into your learning:

  • Play English songs in the background, your brain will pick them up. 
  • Listen actively: focus on the lyrics, identify words, try to understand.
  • Use lyrics with missing words (LingoClip) 
  • Sing along to imitate the pronunciation and rhythm. 
  • Repeat exactly what you hear. 
  • Associate songs with themes – love songs for emotional vocabulary, folk songs for storytelling. (Galway Girl) 
  • Use karaoketexty to check, compare and perhaps correct the translation. 

Don’t give up. Get all the help you can. 

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English from the first grade of primary school

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Vital words for understanding

primary school – the first years of school for young children

tribes – groups of people with the same opinions

research – studying or investigating a topic to find facts

foundation – the base or starting point of something

cognitive – related to thinking and understanding

emotional – related to feelings

bilingualism – the ability to speak two languages

confusion – when something is not clear or is mixed up

awareness – knowledge or understanding of something

crucial – very important

common sense – the ability to make good, practical decisions

beneficial – helpful or good for someone

environment – the situation or conditions around someone

prematurely – too early, before the right time

 

A topic with a capital T. If you’re reading this, you’re probably interested in what I have to say about it. So let me give you my humble opinion on the matter. 

People seem to fall into two obvious tribes here – yes and no. I will argue my point throughout this article. Let me start with some research to give you the background I am building on. 

During my DELTA I did a lot of reading and there are many interesting facts that I would like to share with you. In the past there was a belief that language and thinking were closely linked and that a strong foundation in the L1 (first  language, in our case Czech) was crucial for higher order thinking. This idea comes from a Soviet psychologist who suggested that if a child is exposed to a second language (e.g. English) prematurely (too early, without a strong base in the mother tongue), it could lead to cognitive and emotional difficulties. Later, and I am talking about the 20th century, there were researchers who speculated that early bilingualism could lead to split identities or confusion. 

However, this theory has now been disproved. 

Let that sink in. 

I agree that mother tongue awareness is a must. But I’d advise any parent to start as early as possible. So is it a good idea to introduce English in the first year of primary school, when the children are about 7 years old? 

Hell’ya. 

However, there is a BUT coming from where I am. Children at that age cannot write in their mother tongue, so there are some crucial parts that need to be taken care of. I would need to be sure that their first language is well developed – that they speak and understand the language. As they cannot write in their first language, I hope that my colleagues teaching the early years would have enough common sense not to teach them to write in English. This can cause further confusion. 

I honestly think it can work. Young children are like sponges and it’s easier for them to learn. I think their English will also sound more ‚native‘ and honestly, the earlier they start, the better they can become. As long as the lessons are full of speaking, playing, singing and games, they will be beneficial. 

One question remains: Can we create such an environment? 

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From Obligation to Opportunity

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Vital words for understanding

expression = a word or group of words that communicate an idea

frustrated = feeling upset or annoyed because something is difficult

obligation = something you must do because it’s your duty or responsibility

opportunity = a chance to do or achieve something

mindset = a way of thinking or an attitude

annoyed = feeling slightly angry or irritated

access = the ability or right to use or reach something

confidence = a feeling of trust in your own abilities

discover = to find out or learn something new

pressure = a feeling of stress or urgency to do something

have to do = to need to do something because it’s necessary or required

get to do = to have the chance or privilege to do something

 

Let’s talk about motivation today. I was listening to a podcast and I couldn’t help but notice a comparison between two expressions. First, take a minute to look at the two expressions. Are they phrasal verbs? What do you think? 

have to do x get to do

They are not. Whether you knew the answer or not, how does it make you feel? Frustrated? Confused? Annoyed? Asking yourself: why should I know? Why are you asking this? I don’t know about you, but I get very frustrated when I don’t know something. I keep asking myself why I don’t know, and I keep telling myself that I should know. I should know. I should know. 

… and that is what is fundamentally wrong with how we think about ourselves, what we know or what we learn. We start seeing learning as an obligation instead of an opportunity. But what if we flipped that mindset?

Instead of saying, „I have to know this,“ what if we said: „I get to know this.“

Suddenly, learning becomes something exciting and full of possibilities. It’s not about feeling bad for what you don’t know. It’s about feeling fortunate for what you get to discover.

Let’s play a little with our brains. I am not a neuro-linguistic coach (yet), but I think we reshape our realities by the way we think. 

So instead of saying: I’m bad at English, I made that mistake again. I need to study more. Say: I can learn this thing. I get to learn from this mistake and improve.

Don’t say: I need to understand how phrasal verbs work, I hate that side of English. Say: I get to explore that there is such a thing as phrasal verbs in this language. 

I know it sounds cheesy – but the fact is that what we call a problem is a luxury for others. Millions of people never have access to formal education. The fact that you can learn English is a gift.

I practised the piano on Sunday. On 1 February it will be a year since I’ve taken up this hobby. I am bad. I am so bad at it. I can barely play three songs, and hardly ever without making a mistake. For a second I was frustrated. How can I be so bad? Or is it just so hard to learn? Eventually I realised that it did not matter. I chose a hobby, I learn, I progress, I fail – and I can do it for the rest of my life. There is no pressure, I have all the time I want. 

I know that’s not the reality for many of you, and you needed English yesterday. But – doesn’t that say something about you? Even if you have a deadline, don’t let fear get the better of you. Changing have to to get to can transform your motivation and mindset. It makes learning a positive, empowering experience. When you stop seeing English as something to be conquered and start seeing it as something to be explored, you’ll find greater joy and confidence in your learning journey.

So the next time you’re frustrated with grammar or vocabulary, stop and say:
I don’t have to know this – I get to learn this.

Welcome to my head

Think Beyond Words: Unlocking Minds

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Vital words for understanding

creativity – central to the opening scene.

DELTA M1 – indicates a specific teaching qualification.

resources – key to understanding the discussion topic.

acquiring information – highlights a primary purpose of language learning.

translation – connects with the risks of misinterpretation.

multilingual – central theme; being able to speak multiple languages.

cognitive ability – crucial to the argument about mental benefits.

mental process – explains cognitive abilities.

perception – a part of cognitive skills.

reasoning – another important cognitive function.

evaluation – key to multilingual advantages.

pattern recognition – relates to multilingual brain advantages.

context – vital for understanding multilingualism benefits.

verify – emphasizes critical thinking enabled by multilingualism.

independent – underscores the empowerment from multilingualism.

perception – a part of cognitive skills.

As I sit here, filling the creativity slot in the calendar and waiting for my DELTA M1 results, I cannot help but wonder. This morning I had two sessions, among others, that I cannot wrap my head around. 

Let’s talk about the first one – resources. 

What is English for? What is the point of knowing another language? Acquiring information should be at the top of the list, in my opinion. When my client was talking about the resources he uses to get information, what’s wrong with the information, the sources, even the people who run these institutions – wow, I feel very lucky not to have those kinds of thoughts. Not to have the only choice. If you know more languages, you can browse, you can search, you can clarify, you can verify. You do not have to sit and wait for information in your mother tongue – without even imagining that it might be changed. I think it happens, but not deliberately. Translation is tricky and it only takes one small mistake to give the information a completely different meaning. 

That got me thinking about whether there is a connection between information and the brain, and this is what I came up with: knowing more languages improves the brain’s ability to take in, process and evaluate information. Multilingual people can browse different sources in different languages and get a fuller picture of something without having to rely on potentially limited or altered translations.  

I know, and research knows, that people who speak more languages (multilingual) have better cognitive abilities. Come on, Michaela, a cognitive ability? WTF is that? Sorry! A cognitive ability is a mental process and skill that enables us to acquire knowledge, understand information, solve problems and adapt to new situations. These abilities include functions such as perception, memory, reasoning, attention, language and decision-making. Multilingual people have more of these abilities as they move between languages. When it comes to evaluation, a multilingual person can cross-reference and verify details, minimising errors or misunderstandings caused by translation.

Bottom line: Being restricted to a single language limits cognitive freedom and makes people dependent on second-hand interpretations of information. Multilingualism empowers people to seek, clarify and verify information independently, using their brain’s natural ability to recognise patterns and understand context. So next time, instead of waiting for the evening news to bring us the information, go online and see for yourself. Like me this morning – I needed to hear exactly what the new American president was saying. I had to see his body language. I needed to take the time to do this for myself, because no matter what others say, I know why I agree or disagree and what it reminds me of. 

The brain is a strange thing – I am writing this article in English, although my mother tongue is Czech. What does it tell you?

Let me know, I am curious. 

M.

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Why Are You Not Making Progress with Your English?

Vital words for understanding

harsh /harš/ – unpleasantly rough

acquire /ekuájr/ – learn, develop

surround /suraund/ – be all round

immerse /imrrs/ – invoice deeply

womb /wum/ – the organ in the body of a woman in which the baby develops

eavesdrop /ívsdrop/ – listen in secret

dedicate /dedykejt/ – devote

takeaway /tejkevej/ – a key fact

foundation /fandejšn/ – the basis

bilingual /bájlingl/ – speaking two languages fluently

 

The reason is quite simple: you’re not doing enough. Please hear me out before you stop reading and think I’m being harsh. There’s a reason I’m saying this.

To acquire a second language, you must do more than one thing. Reading alone isn’t enough. Grammar alone doesn’t mean much. Vocabulary won’t save you. And just speaking won’t get you anywhere. Do you see where I’m going with this? Can you?

Learning a language is complex. You need all aspects of the language. You need to read, write, study grammar, learn vocabulary, speak, and listen—especially listen. Surround yourself with the language. It would be best if you immersed yourself in it. Do you remember learning your native language? No? Exactly!

You were born into your native language and gradually introduced to it. You listened to your mother’s voice in the womb and all the voices around you. You were spoken to from the moment you arrived, observing and absorbing everything like a sponge. You were exposed to your native language and spent thousands of hours interacting with it—listening, eavesdropping, being read to, watching TV, singing, and learning poems. If you were awake for ten to twelve hours a day, you were probably in contact with the language for more than 20,000 hours before you even started school.

Can you say you’ve interacted with English for more than 20,000 hours? If so, your abilities are likely comparable to a child starting the first grade. And yet, some people are faster and more skilled. Yes, they are probably more dedicated and push themselves harder. You can do it too. The most efficient and natural way to acquire a language is to accept it and let it consume you. Do everything in the language:

  • Talk to yourself (plan what you want to say).
  • Set your phone to English.
  • Listen to podcasts, songs, audiobooks, articles, and poems.
  • Watch videos, films, clips, and series.
  • Play games.
  • Use vocabulary apps.
  • Read in English.

Do everything in English, and I promise it will work. It’s not about talent—that’s an excuse lazy people use. Sure, some people have a predisposition that helps them learn languages, but that doesn’t mean you’re not capable of learning. You just need to work a little harder. Of course, age plays a role. We learn differently as children and as adults. „The sooner the better“ is a saying that can be misleading. Did you know that if children are immersed in a different language for long periods in preschool or daycare, their development in their family language may slow down or stall? They might even stop speaking their family language, which can lead to significant social and psychological problems.

What’s the takeaway? If you’re an adult learning English, dive into the language. Do everything in it. If you’re a parent struggling with English and concerned about your child, introduce English only after your child has a strong foundation in your native language. Don’t confuse your child—they can become bilingual after they’ve learned their first language. I’m living proof of that.